About Toast & Vows

Toast & Vows is a small independent website with one job: helping people who have been asked to speak at a wedding get from a blank page to a speech they are proud of.

Most people only give one or two wedding speeches in their life, and almost nobody feels ready. The generator gives you a well-structured first draft built around your own stories, following the traditions guests expect for each role. You then edit it until it sounds like you.

How the generator works

When you press "Write my speech", your details are sent to a large language model with instructions written for each role: what a best man speech usually covers, how a father of the bride welcomes guests, how a ceremony script is laid out. The model is told to build on the details you give and not to invent events that did not happen. Every draft should still be read, checked and personalized before the wedding.

Our guides

We also publish practical guides on how long a wedding speech should be and the order of wedding speeches.

Get in touch

Questions, feedback or a speech that went brilliantly? Contact us.