Toast & Vows More and more mothers are giving a speech of their own, either instead of or alongside the father of the bride. There is no fixed script, which is freeing and a little daunting.
Tell the generator about your daughter, the moment you knew her partner was right for her, and anything you want to pass on. It writes a speech that welcomes the guests, celebrates the couple and ends with a toast, in the tone you choose.
How to structure a mother of the bride speech
- WelcomeThank the guests for coming and acknowledge the other family.
- A memory of herA short story from her childhood or teenage years that still says something about her today.
- Her partnerWhat you saw when you first met them, and a warm welcome into the family.
- A wish for their marriageOne piece of advice or a hope for the life they are building.
- The toastInvite everyone to raise a glass to the couple.
Tips before you stand up
- Three to five minutes is plenty, especially if other parents are also speaking.
- Coordinate with the other speakers so you are not all telling the same story.
- Speak to your daughter and her partner directly for at least one moment. It is often the most moving part.
- Humor about motherhood lands well. Embarrassing baby stories rarely do.
- Print the speech and bring a spare copy for someone at your table.
Example opening lines
Borrow one, or use it as a starting point. The generator writes a full speech around your own details.
Good evening, everyone. I'm Claire, Lily's mum, and I've been waiting a long time to stand up and embarrass her in public. Don't worry, sweetheart, I'll be gentle.
When Lily was five, she told me she would never get married because she was going to live with me forever. I'm so happy she changed her mind.
Thank you all for coming. Looking out at this room, I can see every chapter of Lily's life, and tonight we get to celebrate the best one yet.
Frequently asked questions
Can we give a joint parents' speech?
Yes. Pick this page or Father of the bride, add both parents' memories, and write 'joint speech from both of us' in Other requests.
Will it work for a mother of the groom?
Yes. Enter the details as they are and write 'mother of the groom' in Other requests. The structure is the same.
Do I need to sign up?
No. It is free with no account.